We lost a special member of the family this past Sunday. Pa Hays, Jared's grandpa, was diagnosed last week with pancreatic cancer. The doctor thought he had between 3 and 6 months left to live. He was in pain, but was still all with it and even kept up with TCU playing in the college world series in Omaha. Sadly, he passed away just a few days later, on Father's Day. The funeral was on Thursday and we all felt it was the perfect way to remember Joseph Warren Hays. He was a hardworking man, full of life and had a love for his family and all things TCU.
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| I first met Pa the summer before Jared and I got engaged. I knew things were serious between us when Jared made a point for us to drive over to Fort Worth so that I could meet Ma and Pa Hays. I immediately loved them both. They made me feel so welcome from that very first day. A year later, Pa asked me to dance at our wedding... |
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| and then he and Ma boogied down on the dance floor. I love remembering them this way. |
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| We didn't see him too often, usually during the holidays and on other special occasions, but treasured the time we did have with him. |
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| He came to meet his first great-grandson when Jackson was only one day old. Jackson carried on the JWH tradition, just like his daddy. Then, when J was two years old, Pa met us at the Fort Worth Zoo. He was in such good shape as an 85 year old and trekked around the zoo all morning with us. This was a special day because he told us that he planned to propose to Roxie and showed us the ring he had bought. We were thrilled for him and so glad that he had found happiness since Ma had passed away the year before. |
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| A few months later, Lila was born and Pa came to meet her at the Sip & See hosted by Shelley and Warren at their home. I'm pretty sure she stole his heart that day. |
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| Fast forward a few more years and his family had grown even more, adding Lyndsie and Maria! |
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| And then his third great grandchild was born! We took the kids to Pa's house about six weeks ago and got to introduce him to sweet Cami. He loved holding her and seeing her smile at him. |
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| Lila got to show him that she is learning to read and he was so proud of her. |
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Then before we went to lunch with Pa and Roxie, Jackson got out his ball and glove and showed Pa his baseball skills. Pa used to coach little league and baseball was always his favorite sport. He adored watching his namesake play some ball. I am so thankful we had this good day with him.
We love you, Pa! And we'll see you again one day. Like Lila said, "he's already in heaven, just waiting for us." |